Friday, January 26, 2007
26/1/07
I c alled to her house to chat. Then as we goes on, she then mentioned about the topic of her designation in her company. She said that she was applying the job of engineering secretary, there was 2 occasions that she saw her appointment in the company as engineering administrator. She thought that since she was applying for the job of secretary why her appointment in the HR is as administrator. She also asked her colleague ,who used to be at the same position whom now had promoted to HR secretary, about it. Her colleague also said that her position was also engineering administrator.
So i asked her to tell her boss about it probably to change the appointment to secretary. But she said it was not the issue. (until now i STILL don quite understand why u angry, probably is that they bluff her when they do the interview... knowing that you WILL read this, but i have to write so that you can understand what is in my mind) Then i COULD hear that she was a bit of furstrated, so i decided not to carry on. Then she said she want to hang up the phone so i think it was not the best time to carry on any further. So i let her hang up the phone first.
Actually what was troubling me is not that you are been ridiculus or..无理取闹, because i know everyone will have their bad day and hope that their loved one will console them and best will can cheer them up BUT i did the opposite i add fuel to the fire.(that wat she said)
I was dissapointed with myself being unable to console you or cheer u up and to add thing worst, i added fuel to the flame..
We then apologise to each other thru sms:
Jas: if i not in a good mood, then don argue with her, just lend her your DEAF ears she will stop eventually.
I c alled to her house to chat. Then as we goes on, she then mentioned about the topic of her designation in her company. She said that she was applying the job of engineering secretary, there was 2 occasions that she saw her appointment in the company as engineering administrator. She thought that since she was applying for the job of secretary why her appointment in the HR is as administrator. She also asked her colleague ,who used to be at the same position whom now had promoted to HR secretary, about it. Her colleague also said that her position was also engineering administrator.
So i asked her to tell her boss about it probably to change the appointment to secretary. But she said it was not the issue. (until now i STILL don quite understand why u angry, probably is that they bluff her when they do the interview... knowing that you WILL read this, but i have to write so that you can understand what is in my mind) Then i COULD hear that she was a bit of furstrated, so i decided not to carry on. Then she said she want to hang up the phone so i think it was not the best time to carry on any further. So i let her hang up the phone first.
Actually what was troubling me is not that you are been ridiculus or..无理取闹, because i know everyone will have their bad day and hope that their loved one will console them and best will can cheer them up BUT i did the opposite i add fuel to the fire.(that wat she said)
I was dissapointed with myself being unable to console you or cheer u up and to add thing worst, i added fuel to the flame..
We then apologise to each other thru sms:
Jas: if i not in a good mood, then don argue with her, just lend her your DEAF ears she will stop eventually.
